Jesus and Mary, our Wedding Guests

Second Sunday in Ordinary Time [C}

January 19, 2025

John 2:1-12

In every wedding, we naturally expect the bridegroom and bride to take center stage. After all, it is their marriage—their happiest moment. However, the story of the wedding at Cana in Galilee offers us a different perspective, one that is often overlooked. What is it?

The wedding at Cana is not primarily about the bride and groom. Surprisingly, their names are never mentioned, and they barely feature in the story. The only time the bridegroom is mentioned is when he is praised for providing an abundant supply of high-quality wine. Instead, this Gospel account focuses on Jesus and His interaction with Mary, His mother. It reveals a deeper truth about Christian marriages that transcends the visible celebration.

The story begins with an introduction: Jesus’ mother, Jesus Himself, and His disciples are invited to the wedding. This detail carries profound significance. Whom do we invite to our wedding? Too often, we focus only on ourselves—preparing the venue, planning ceremonies and programs, selecting food, and choosing the perfect wedding attire. We become preoccupied with pleasing relatives, friends, and guests. But do we make it a priority to invite Jesus and His mother to our wedding?

Many of us might respond, “Yes! We invite Jesus to our wedding because it takes place in the Church!” Yet, is Jesus truly present in our hearts? For some, the wedding is held in a church simply because we happen to be Catholic. Others choose a church wedding for its beauty or prestige. Many attend pre-marriage catechetical courses merely out of obligation, complying with diocesan requirements to secure a church wedding. But how many of us make a conscious and heartfelt effort to truly invite Jesus to our wedding? Do we spiritually prepare for the sacrament through retreats or confession? Do we ask for His grace and guidance as we embark on this sacred journey?

The story of the wedding at Cana also highlights Mary’s unique role. She notices the wine is running out and alerts Jesus to the problem. After a brief exchange, she instructs the servants: “Do whatever He tells you.” This leads to Jesus performing His first miracle. These events reveal Mary’s deep involvement in the wedding. She is not just an ordinary guest; she has access to the inner workings of the household and is aware of the practical needs, such as the shortage of wine. Instead of informing the bridegroom or his family, she turns to Jesus. Out of love for His mother, Jesus uses the simple resources available—water—and transforms them into the finest wine.

This truth is both profound and beautiful. If we want the “best wine” in our marriage, it is essential not only to invite Jesus and Mary to our wedding day but to welcome them into our “kitchen,” and to allow them to be involved in everyday moments of our lives. The Gospel reminds us that the best wine comes from ordinary water. In the same way, the greatest blessings in marriage often arise from simple, unseen acts of love for our spouse and children.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection Questions

Have we truly invited Jesus and Mary into our marriage, family, and daily lives? Do we recognize Jesus working miracles in our marriages? Have we entrusted our marriage and family to the care of Mary?

What is Baptism?

The Baptism of the Lord [C]

January 12, 2025

Luke 3:15–16, 21–22

Jesus began His public ministry after being baptized by John the Baptist. Similarly, we start our new lives as God’s children and begin following Jesus on His path of the cross through baptism. But what exactly is baptism, and why is it associated with the beginning of something so important?

Jewish Ritual Purity

The Greek word “βαπτίζειν” (baptizein) originally means “to dip into water” or “to wash with water.” In the Old Testament, particularly in the Septuagint (the Greek translation of the Old Testament), βαπτίζειν refers to the rite of purification (e.g., Judith 12:7). What is this rite of purification in the Old Testament? To understand it, we need to recognize that ancient Israel adhered to the concept of ritual purity or cleanliness.

Although not strictly moral in nature, the purity laws were integral to the Torah. These laws determined whether a Jew was ritually clean or unclean. When Jews were considered “pure,” they could enter holy places like the Temple in Jerusalem to offer sacrifices. Offering sacrifices enabled them to worship the Lord God and receive blessings, such as the forgiveness of sins and communion with God and fellow believers.

A Jew could become impure through physical contact with various things, such as: dead bodies, bodily discharges (e.g., menstrual blood, male semen), certain animals (e.g., pigs, camels, or specific insects), and skin diseases. If they became impure, they needed to perform a ritual cleansing, typically by washing with water (βαπτίζειν). Thus, the purity laws ensured that they approached the holy place worthily.

John’s Baptism

John the Baptist introduced a significant shift. His baptism was no longer a ritual of purification but a symbolic gesture of repentance. For John, what mattered was not being ritually clean but living morally upright lives before the Lord. Thus, it was meaningless to undergo ritual cleansing while continuing to live in sin.

John told his followers that he baptized with water as a symbol of repentance, but someone greater than him would come to baptize with the Holy Spirit and fire. What does it mean to be baptized “in the Holy Spirit and fire”? Throughout Church history, this phrase has been interpreted in various ways: St. John Chrysostom taught that Jesus’ baptism refers to Pentecost, where the Holy Spirit descended like fire and filled Jesus’ disciples with various graces. Origen, on the other hand, argued that baptism in the Holy Spirit is for those who believe and repent, while baptism in fire is for those who refuse to believe and repent.

The Church’s Teaching on Baptism

Although interpretations differ, it is important to receive Jesus’ baptism, and Jesus baptizes us through His body, the Church. Thus, sacramental baptism performed by the Church, comes from Jesus and is essential for salvation (1 Peter 3:21). It imparts sanctifying grace upon the soul (2 Peter 1:4) and transforms us, empowering us to live as children of God. Unlike John’s baptism, which was an external sign of repentance, Jesus’ baptism—administered through His Church—truly transforms our souls and enables us to live worthily in God’s grace.

Addendum: Does Baptism Always Mean Full Immersion?

The word βαπτίζειν in the Bible does not always imply full-body immersion. For instance, in Mark 7:4–8, βαπτίζειν is used to describe ritual washing of specific body parts, such as hands, or even the washing of utensils. The Catholic Church teaches that baptism is valid whether performed by full immersion or by pouring water on the head (Catechism of the Catholic Church 1239–1240).

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection and Guide Questions

Have you received Jesus’ baptism performed through His Church? Do you encourage your family members, relatives, and friends to be baptized? Are you aware of the extraordinary graces we receive through baptism? Do you live out the spirit of your baptism in daily life?

Pilgrims of Hope

The Epiphany [C]
January 5, 2025
Matthew 2:1-12

Only Matthew recorded the story of the Magi from the East, devoting just 12 verses to it (around 1.12% of his Gospel). Yet, Christians throughout generations have found this story deeply fascinating and full of mysteries. Who were these Magi? Were there really three of them? Where exactly did they come from in the East? What was the “star” they saw? What is the meaning behind their gifts? While these questions remain the subject of debate and discussion, one thing draws us all to this story—we can all relate to the experience of the Magi. But what exactly is this shared experience?

We are captivated by the Magi’s journey because we, too, are journeying. Every day, we travel—from home to school or work, from one place to another. Every Sunday, we journey to church. Occasionally, we explore new places for vacation, discovery, or pilgrimage. At other times, we are compelled to go places we would rather avoid, like hospitals. At a deeper level, life itself is a journey. From the moment we leave our mother’s womb until we reach our final destination, we are constantly moving through time and space. Deep within, we ask ourselves, “Where are we going? Does my journey have a purpose?”

The story of the Magi offers us answers to these fundamental questions. When the Magi discovered the “star” of the newborn King, they knew they had to find Him. However, they could have misinterpreted the star’s meaning. Along the way, they faced potential dangers and unforeseen challenges. The risks were enormous. Yet, they did not give up easily. As true pilgrims, they pressed on with hope—hope to find the One they desired most.

Matthew gives us few details about their journey, leaving much to our imagination. Yet, we can sense their surprise when they failed to find the newborn King in Jerusalem. They likely expected the King to be the son of Herod, the reigning monarch. Despite this setback, they did not lose hope but continued their search. Their surprise grew even greater when they found the baby King in the humble home of Joseph and Mary. Yet again, despite unmet expectations, their hope pointed them to this little baby would become the King of Israel, and thus, they offered their homage and gifts. The Magi became the first non-Israelites to accept Jesus. Their journey reminds us of St. Paul’s words: “Hope does not disappoint” (Romans 5:5).

Like the Magi, we, too, are pilgrims in this world. At times, we feel unsure of our paths, surrounded by uncertainties. Sometimes, our journey seems meaningless, especially when we are tired or lost. Often, we are afraid to face challenges and dangers. Yet, deep inside, we know we must keep moving forward, hoping that our journey toward Jesus will bear fruit. For it is He whom our hearts desire most. Gabriel Marcel, a Catholic philosopher, beautifully expresses this in his book Homo Viator, “I almost think that hope is for the soul what breathing is for the living organism. Where hope is lacking, the soul dries up and withers…” We are pilgrims on earth—not of fear or despair, but of hope.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide Questions

Are we aware that we are sojourners on this earth, not permanent residents? Do we recognize our true destination? What efforts do we make to stay on the right path? How do we respond to challenges and troubles in our journey? How can we keep our hope alive during this long journey?

Cold Yet Blessed Christmas

Nativity of Our Lord [C]
December 25, 2024
Luke 2:1–14

One privilege I had as a priest was the opportunity to study in Rome, and one unforgettable experience was celebrating Christmas in this eternal city. A striking difference from my home country was immediately apparent: Christmas in Rome is cold. Coming from a country near the equator, where the temperature remains relatively constant throughout the year, experiencing December as winter (with temperatures ranging from 8°C to -1°C) was a stark contrast. As I celebrated Christmas in this chilly season, my first thought was that it must have been a similarly cold winter in Bethlehem when Jesus was born.

Some skeptics argue that it’s unlikely Jesus was born in December, claiming it would have been too cold for shepherds to keep watch over their sheep in the open fields. While December is indeed winter in Israel, it’s not so cold as to prevent people from staying outside. A quick online search reveals that nighttime temperatures in Bethlehem-Jerusalem average around 7–8°C. After all, sheep are typically kept outdoors, and the shepherds, familiar with these conditions, would have been well-prepared to endure the chilly environment.

The shepherds may have been prepared for the cold, but what about the baby Jesus? While winters in Israel are milder than in many European countries, the fact remains that winter in Bethlehem is cold and chilling. The first sensation baby Jesus likely felt upon leaving the warmth of Mary’s womb was the cold. Certainly, Mary and Joseph would have done their utmost to protect and keep Him warm, but the low temperatures could not be completely avoided. This chill would have been even more pronounced given that Jesus was not born in a modern, comfortable maternity ward but in a humble place for animals – a cave, as tradition tells us.

Yet, this very humility is at the heart of Christmas: Emmanuel, God-with-us. Our God is not a distant deity hidden away in the heavens, occasionally sending angels to interact with us. He is intimately present, becoming one of us, human. From the moment of His conception, He felt, experienced, and endured everything we are and do. The coldness of that Christmas night was only the beginning. Jesus would come to know hunger and thirst, pain and sorrow, just as we do. He also embraced the warmth and love of Mary and Joseph. He grew and learned to live as we do. He knows who we are because He has become one of us.

It’s true that we often pray for the Lord to remove our suffering, pain, and sorrow, yet it seems these struggles persist. In His divine wisdom, God allows our suffering, though we may not always understand the reasons. However, through the mystery of Christmas, we are assured of one profound truth: Jesus knows our pain. He shares in it and bears it with us. This is our Gospel, this is our Christmas.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Merry and Blessed Christmas!

Rejoice, But Why?

3rd Sunday of Advent [B]

December 15, 2024

Luke 3:10-18

We are now in the third Sunday of Advent, also known as the Gaudete Sunday. “Gaudete” is a Latin word meaning “Rejoice!” This name comes from the introit or the opening antiphon of the Mass, taken from Phil 4:4-5, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand!” Yet, why should we rejoice in this season of Advent?

The coming of the Lord is, at its heart, a cause for great joy. On the first Sunday of Advent, we heard about the terrifying events surrounding the second coming of Jesus at the end of time, “the powers of heaven will be shaken (Luk 21:26).” Yet, this fear is only those who do not love Jesus, those who are afraid of His judgment. For those who love Jesus and live according to His commandments, His coming is a reason to rejoice, for we are confident that we will be with Him.

But why do we experience profound joy when we are with Jesus? Think about our relationship with those we love. When we love someone, we desire to be close and share time together. This bond brings us joy and peace. When we love our children, we desire to be together with them and spend time with them. The experience brings joy in our hearts. It is the same with Jesus. If we truly love Jesus, we long to be united with Him, and when we embrace Jesus, we receive the joy that our hearts desire. The more deeply we love Jesus, the deeper the joy we experience when He comes.

However, the opposite is also true. If we do not love Jesus as we should, or even we hate Jesus, then we will not rejoice at His coming. Instead, we fear His coming. But what does it mean to “hate” Jesus? It can be more subtle than we think.

  • Forsaking Jesus: We “hate” Jesus when we abandon Him or no longer trust in Him.
  • Loving other things more: We “hate” Jesus also when we prioritize other things like wealth, popularity, and pleasures more than Jesus.
  • Excessive self-love: Perhaps, most subtly, we “hate” Jesus when we love ourselves excessively and inordinately. The center of our lives is nothing but ourselves, in other words, being narcissistic. We need to be very careful with this inordinate love for ourselves because we may not be conscious about it. We are always going to the Church or active in many parish’s organizations, but the real motivation is that we can be seen by others as pious man or woman.

We rejoice because we love Jesus. Jesus understands how painful it is to be far from one we love dearly. Thus, He comes to us through His Word and in the Eucharist. While this is not a perfect union, it is enough for us to rejoice in the Lord.

Questions for reflection:

Do we love Jesus above all else? How do we love Jesus in our context as parents, spouses, children, professional, or students? What do we love ourselves more than Jesus? Do we teach other to love Jesus?

Why John the Baptist?

Second Sunday of Advent [C]

December 8, 2024

Luke 3:1-6

On the second Sunday of Advent, the Church presents St. John the Baptist as a model for preparing the way for Jesus. But why is John always chosen as the example? The answer lies in the fact that John is one of the most significant figures in the Bible, exemplifying how we should prepare for the coming of Christ. Especially in the Gospel of Luke, we see that John precedes Jesus and prepares His way in three important stages. So, what are these three stages?

1) Through John’s Birth. John was the son of Zechariah, a priest, and Elizabeth. Since Elizabeth and Mary of Nazareth were relatives, this makes John and Jesus family. In Luke’s account, John’s birth is portrayed as an answer to his parents’ prayers. His birth is a miracle, as it occurred when Zechariah and Elizabeth were old and considered barren. This miraculous birth prefigures an even greater one—the birth of Jesus. While John was conceived despite his parents’ old age, Jesus was conceived without the involvement of any man. John’s birth fulfils God’s promises in the Old Testament (such as to Abraham and Sarah, Gen 17-18; Elkanah and Hannah, 1 Sam 1:1-20), while the birth of Jesus inaugurates the New Testament era.

2) Through John’s Preaching. Today’s Gospel speaks of John preaching a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins (Luke 3:3). This fulfills the prophecy of Isaiah, which foretold that a great prophet would prepare the way for the Lord (Isaiah 40:3). John teaches that the best way to prepare for the coming of the Lord is through repentance. Without repentance, our Advent and Christmas celebrations will be shallow. There’s little meaning in decorating our homes or enjoying festive meals with loved ones if we do not first seek to reform our lives.

3) Through John’s Death. John’s death comes at the hands of Herod’s executioners. He had condemned Herod, the ruler of Galilee, for living in sin—taking his brother’s wife and divorcing his own wife. This angered Herod and his wife. When the opportunity arose, Herod, to please his wife, ordered John’s execution (Luke 9:7-9; Mark 6:14-29; Matthew 14:1-12). John was beheaded because he faithfully preached the truth, calling for repentance. Jesus, too, would eventually be crucified for preaching the truth of the Gospel and calling the Jewish leaders in Jerusalem to repentance. The lesson is not just about how John died, but about how he lived—faithfully preaching the truth, even at the cost of his life. We are also invited not only to reform our own lives but to encourage others to repent, even in the face of rejection.

John is Jesus’ predecessor—in his birth, his preaching, and his death. Through his entire life, John prepared the way for Jesus. This is why John is one of the best models in the Bible for us to follow during this season of Advent.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection Questions:

  • Inspired by John the Baptist, how will you prepare yourself this Advent?
  • What lessons can you draw from John’s example?
  • Like John, are you willing to invite your family, relatives, and friends to repentance and help bring them closer to Jesus?

We and the Saints

33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time [B]
November 17, 2024
Mark 13:24-32

When someone asks if we want to go to heaven, we quickly say, “Yes!” But if asked if we want to become saints, our enthusiasm often fades. This is surprising because everyone in heaven is a saint. To be a saint means to be in heaven. So why do we separate the idea of heaven from being a saint?

At least, there are three reasons:

  1. Misunderstanding the Catholic Faith: Some of us may not fully understand our faith. We might think there are two groups in heaven: well-known saints like the Blessed Mother, St. Joseph, St. Dominic, and St. Francis, and a second group of non-saints. We assume saints are only those who have been officially recognized and celebrated with feast days. But this is not true. All people in heaven are saints, even if we don’t know their names. That’s why we celebrate All Saints’ Day, honoring every person who by God’s grace has reached heaven. One of those saints could be a relative or ancestor!
  2. Thinking It’s Too Hard to Be a Saint: We read stories about saints and feel like we could never be as good as them. Saints seem perfect—extremely lovely, always praying, and some even performed miracles. And martyrs faced painful deaths for their faith. This level of holiness feels impossible for us because we are aware of our weaknesses and sins. But here’s the truth: saints didn’t become holy by their efforts alone; they depended on God’s grace. They were imperfect humans, like all of us, who allowed God’s love to transform them.
  3. Fear of Death: We might think that becoming a saint means we must die first, and we do not want to die! However, not all death is physical and biological. We need to die also to ourselves. This means letting go of worldly attachments and sinful desires.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus speaks about His return in glory and the signs that will come before it—darkened skies, a dim moon, and falling stars. This can mean the end of an era or even the end of the world. Yet, this can also tell us a deeper lesson: the world we know is temporary, destructible, and if we cling too tightly to it, we will lose everything. We need to choose: will we die to this world and live for God, or die with this world, and losing God.

We ask God to help us dying to ourselves, letting go of the world, and live more for Christ. Then, whenever Jesus comes, we will be ready to stand before Him, truly alive, just like the saints in heaven.

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Valentinus B. Ruseno, OP

Questions for Reflection:

What do we think heaven is like? How do we view the saints and their roles in our lives? Do we want to become saints, or are we too attached to the world? What are the things we cling to in this life? How are we preparing for Jesus’ coming?

The Faith of the Poor Widow

32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time [B]

November 10, 2024

Gospel: Mark 12:38-44

In the Gospel of Mark, Jesus commends a poor widow who gives her last two small coins to the Temple. He points out why her act is so remarkable: “Out of her poverty, she gave everything she had, all she had to live on” (Mark 12:44). Jesus admires her because, despite her extreme poverty, she displays extraordinary generosity. But there’s a deeper message here. What is it?

We need to ask, “Why is this widow poor?” In Jesus’ time, widows were among the most vulnerable, especially if they had no family to support and protect them. Because of this, God instructed the Israelites to care for widows (see Deu 14:29 and Isa 1:17). Yet, in this Gospel passage, there is a clue to why this widow has been pushed into poverty. Before praising the widow, Jesus condemns the scribes not just for seeking popularity, but for a more sinister reason, “They devour widows’ houses” (Mark 12:40).

How did the scribes take advantage of widows? There are a few possibilities:

Firstly, Abuse of Legal Authority. The scribes, experts in Jewish law, were trusted as legal advisors or trustees, especially for widows who needed help managing their affairs after their husbands’ death. Afterall, these scribes were men of God! Sadly, some of them abused this trust, using their legal knowledge to manipulate proceedings for personal gain, sometimes even committing fraud.

Secondly, Predatory Lending. Some scribes engaged in predatory lending practices. Under the guise of providing financial help, they would lend money to widows and gradually entrap them in severe debt. When the widows couldn’t repay these debts, they were forced to give up their homes and possessions, ultimately becoming destitute.

While we don’t know the exact way the widow in this story was exploited, we do know she suffered injustice. Despite this, her response is remarkable. Instead of feeling embittered or blaming God, she remains generous and devoted. Even in her suffering, she loves God with all her heart, strength, and life. Why? Because her faith rests in God Himself, not in flawed human representatives like the scribes. While people can fail or act unjustly, God does not. She believes God is watching her, and indeed, Jesus is watching her actions and recognizing her faith and sacrifice.

This story opens our eyes to harsh realities that can exist even within religious institutions. Yet, the widow’s example also teaches us how to respond to these challenges without losing our faith.

Reflection Questions:

Do we help bring people closer to God, or do we push them away? Do we use our position and knowledge to assist others or to take advantage of them? When bad things happen, do we blame God or maintain our trust in Him? Do we stand against injustice and wrongdoing within our communities and Church, or do we remain silent?

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Eucharist and Sacrifice of the Cross

31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

November 3, 2024

Hebrews 7:23-28

Every time we celebrate the Eucharist, we worship God by offering Him the perfect sacrifice. This sacrifice is Jesus Christ, who is truly present in the Eucharist. However, when we read the Letter to the Hebrews, its author writes that Jesus offered Himself on the cross “once and for all” (see Heb 7:27). So, why do we “sacrifice” or even “crucify” Jesus again in the Eucharist? Does this mean we misunderstand our worship?

Firstly, we need to understand the context of the Letter to the Hebrews. The author recognized that in order to worship God, a high priest must offer a sacrifice. Then, the author compares the Israelite high priest from the tribe of Levi with Jesus as the high priest. The Levitical high priest was an ordinary human and, therefore, a sinner. As such, he had to offer sacrifices repeatedly because he continued to fall into sin. Meanwhile, Jesus is truly divine and truly human, without any sin, yet sharing in our human struggles. While the Levitical high priest offered imperfect sacrifices of animals, Jesus gave Himself on the cross as the perfect and most acceptable sacrifice of love. Since the value of His sacrifice on the cross infinitely surpasses the Levitical or any human sacrifice, earthly sacrifices are no longer needed.

However, though Jesus has offered Himself once for all on earth, this does not mean He is inactive in heaven. The same letter to the Hebrews states, “…the heavenly things themselves (the heavenly sanctuary) need better sacrifices than these (earthly sacrifices)” (Heb 9:23). Entering heaven, Jesus does not cease His priestly ministry; rather, He perfects His identity by presenting an endless sacrifice. But how does He offer sacrifice without dying again on the cross? The answer is through a living sacrifice (see Rom 12:1). Jesus presents His own self—His glorious body still bearing the wounds of the cross—as a perfect gift to the Father, but this time, without further death. Since Jesus in heaven and Jesus on the cross are essentially the same, the living sacrifice He offers in heaven has the same infinite value as that on the cross.

Now, let us see what the Catholic Church teaches about the Eucharist as a sacrifice. The Catechism of the Catholic Church says, “When the Church celebrates the Eucharist, she commemorates Christ’s Passover, and it is made present: the sacrifice Christ offered once for all on the cross remains ever present” (CCC 1364). It further states, “The Eucharist is thus a sacrifice because it re-presents (makes present) the sacrifice of the cross, because it is its memorial, and because it applies its fruit” (CCC 1366). But what do these teachings mean?

This means that the Catholic Church understands the Eucharist as our participation in the heavenly liturgy. In the Eucharist, we make present the sacrifice of the cross—not by crucifying Jesus again, but by participating in Jesus’ self-offering in heaven, which holds the same infinite value as His sacrifice on the cross. Only in the Eucharist do we truly worship God and receive the fruits of the cross.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Questions for Reflection:

How do we understand the Eucharist? Do we feel the need to participate in the Eucharist? Do we realize that, through the Eucharist, we are participating in heavenly worship? How can we deepen our participation in the Eucharist? What fruits do you receive from the Eucharist? Do you encourage your family and friends to participate in the Eucharist?

Consecrated Life

28thSunday in Ordinary Time [B]

October 13, 2024

Mark 10:17-30

The Church understands the story of Jesus and the rich man as one of the biblical foundations of vocation to consecrated life. Yet, what is consecrated life? How does this story become an inspiration for us?

The consecrated life is a radical way of life to follow Jesus. In our present time, we quickly recognize these men and women as people who wear religious habits, remain celibate (unmarried), and live inside communities like monasteries or convents. The word ‘consecrate’ here means to be separated or set aside for a particular purpose. The men and women are consecrated because they are ‘separated’ to love God more radically. But why do they have to live this kind of life? To answer this, we need to look closely at the story of Jesus and the rich man.

A man recognized that something fundamental was lacking in his life. When Jesus was coming, his heart knew that Jesus knew the answer. He rushed to Jesus and asked Him how to inherit eternal life. Jesus pointed out the commandments, especially those related to the love of neighbors (do not kill, do not steal, do not bear false witness, and honor your parents). Immediately, the man told Jesus he had been faithful to these laws. Jesus, then, looked at him intently and loved him for his courage to approach Him. Jesus knew that man had never broken the commandments, but he had also not fulfilled the first and most important commandment, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might (Deu 6:5).”

However, Jesus did not just say this truth plainly but rather reformulated it into something more concrete and radical: “You shall love Me (Jesus) with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might!”  This call is radical because it required the man to abandon all that he had and walk with Jesus on His way to the cross. It is radical because Jesus’ invitation goes against the prevalent understanding of that time that to be rich is a sign of God’s blessing (see Deut 28:1–14; Prov 10:22). This is radical because all our time, energy, attention, indeed our lives, are for Jesus.

This man never killed or stole, perhaps went to synagogue every Sabbath, and occasionally went to Jerusalem to offer sacrifices at the Temple. But, deep inside, he was called to love God totally. Yet, when Jesus offered him the opportunity, he shied away because he had many possessions. Will this man be condemned? Indeed, he will not be punished and will remain the inheritor of eternal life. But he also cannot fulfill his deepest desire to love God radically.

In the present time, this radical following of Jesus manifests in men and women who totally give themselves to Jesus and the Church. These men and women do not get married, so their time may be devoted to prayers and service. They work or receive money not to be rich but simply to support their lives and ministry. Finally, they freely give up their freedom to love God and His people. Yet, the Church understands this vocation is not for everyone.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Questions for reflections:

Do we love God totally and radically? Do we love God first, or do we love ourselves first? What hinders us from loving God? Money, wealth, professions, fame, hobby, or other things? Are we called into the consecrated life? Are we ready to answer yes to Jesus’ calling?