The Prodigal Father

4th Sunday of Lent [C]

March 30, 2025

Luke 15:1-3, 11-32

The story of the Prodigal Son is one of the most beautiful parables in the Gospel. Not only is it masterfully told, but it also teaches profound lessons—especially about parenthood.

Raising children is no easy task. Each child has a unique personality, and each can bring both joy and heartache. Many of us struggle to know how to be good parents. Some rely on the wisdom passed down from their own parents and elders, drawing from memories of how they were raised. Others turn to social media or self-proclaimed parenting “experts” for guidance. A few make the effort to consult real specialists—paediatricians, child psychologists, and educators. Yet, in the end, our children are not carbon copies of us. There will always be surprises beyond our control. All we can do is pray and hope they that will grow into their best selves.

The father in the parable offers us a powerful example. Despite doing his best to raise his two sons, he faced painful relationships with both. The younger son demanded his inheritance, severed ties, and left to live a sinful life. Imagine the father’s heartbreak—his son treated him as disposable, not as a parent. The elder son was no better. When his brother returned, he refused to enter the house and join the celebration. He never called his father “Father,” referring to his brother as “your son” instead of “my brother.” He saw himself not as a son but as a servant, even saying, “Look! All these years I’ve worked for you like a slave! Again, the father’s heart must have ached—he had raised a son, not a slave.

Yet, despite these struggles, the father never gave up. He never stopped hoping for his younger son’s return. When the prodigal son came home, humbled and expecting to be a servant, the father is the first one who saw his son, ran after him, and embraced him. He called him “my son” and not servant. When the first son refused to go home, the father sought him and pleaded with him, calling him “my son” and not servant, explaining that everything he has, belongs also to his son.

Many of us are blessed with children but endure strained relationships. Despite our best efforts, our children may not turn out as we hoped. Some, like the younger son, reject our love or wish us gone. Others, like the elder son, see us as taskmasters, not parents. Yet the parable calls us to love perseveringly, and till the end, because that is true parenthood. That is holiness.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection Questions:

How do we raise our children well? What is the state of our relationship with them? Do we face difficulties in relating to our children? How do we respond to these challenges? Do we rely on God’s grace to guide us?

Who is Theophilus?

3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

January 26, 2025

Luke 1:1-4; 4:14-21

Luke addressed his Gospel to a man named Theophilus, but who exactly was he? And why did Luke dedicate his Gospel to him?

There are several interesting theories about Theophilus. The most widely accepted theory is that he was a sponsor for Luke in writing his Gospel. Two thousand years ago, producing a book was astronomically expensive. “Paper” was made either from animal skins or from papyrus, a plant that only grew along the Nile River in Egypt. Additionally, Luke had to cover “research costs.” Unlike other evangelists, Luke was not an eyewitness to the events of Jesus’ life. Therefore, to create a historically reliable document, he had to travel and interview eyewitnesses, such as some of the apostles and Mary, Jesus’ mother.

Since there were no printing machines at the time, Luke had to handwrite the text or hire a stenographer or copyist, significantly increasing the cost.

The Gospel of Luke is the longest of the four Gospels (it contains the most words). Luke also wrote the Acts of the Apostles. Together, these two works make up almost one-third of the entire New Testament. It is no wonder that Luke needed financial support from a wealthy individual for his costly project.

Luke addresses Theophilus as “κράτιστος” (kratistos), usually translated as “most excellent.” This title was commonly used to address individuals of high status and rank. Therefore, we can infer that Theophilus was more than capable of supporting Luke in writing the Gospel. But the next question arises: What was Theophilus’ relationship to Jesus? Was he a baptized Christian and a member of the early Church? Or was he just an interested individual who happened to want to learn about Jesus’ life?

If Theophilus was a baptized believer, Luke may have written his Gospel to deepen Theophilus’ knowledge of Jesus. Perhaps Theophilus would use the Gospel to instruct his local Christian community or parish. However, if Theophilus was not yet baptized, the Gospel could have served as a means of evangelization, introducing Christ to him and hopefully leading him and his family to faith.

Another interesting theory is that the name “Theophilus” does not refer to a single individual but rather to all believers. “Theophilus” is derived from two Greek words: “Theos” (meaning “God”) and “Philos” (meaning “friend” or “one who loves as a friend”). Therefore, Theophilus refers to anyone who loves God and desires to have a communion with Him. In this sense, Theophilus represents all Christians throughout the ages who seek a deeper friendship with God as they learn and contemplate on Jesus’ life through Luke’s Gospel. In this way, Luke dedicated his work to all Christians.

In the end, we may never know who Theophilus truly was, and we must wait until we reach heaven to find out. However, from both Luke and Theophilus, we learn that the work of evangelization is extremely difficult. Yet, they also show us that each person can contribute to this divine project. Some offer their talents in writing, some teach, and others provide various forms of support. While everyone can give their time and energy, some are called to preach to large audiences, while others are called to raise their families in faith. Each one of us can be a Theophilus in our own way—someone who loves God and desires for Him to be known by others.

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Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide Questions:

Have we read the entire Gospel of Luke? What is my favorite episode in the Gospel of Luke? And why? What do we do to contribute to the work of evangelization? Do we help bring God closer to others? How?