Fourth Sunday of Advent [A] – December 21, 2019 – Matthew 1:18-24

A few days ago, a nativity scene went viral. The image is called “Let Mom Rest”. The prominent character of this scene is that Joseph is taking care of the baby Jesus while Mary is resting. This image presents to us untouched yet powerful aspects of Jesus’ birth and thus, Christmas. Often, we focus our attention on Jesus with Mary, His mother. We honor Mary because of her willingness to carry Jesus on her womb despite so many dangers and difficulties and to remain a faithful disciple of Jesus till the end. However, the image brings us to another important character that we often overlook, St. Joseph, as the man of faith.

If God has chosen and prepared the most fitting woman in human history to become the mother of His Son, the same logic governs also the choice of the foster father of Jesus. The most suitable man is chosen for this massive yet wonderful task.

Unfortunately, we do not know much about Joseph. Matthew only gave us very little information, but from this little knowledge, we can extract some important truths. Firstly, Joseph is from the house of David. This means that any child that he begets or accepts legally shall be part of the house of David as well. Joseph is the link that connects between Jesus and David, and thus, Jesus’ birth shall fulfill the prophecy that the Messiah shall come from the line of David.

Secondly, he is a carpenter, and being a carpenter is not a promising job to survive first-century Palestine. Yet, Joseph well knows that hard-work, precision, and perfection are parts of his trade. A tough life is nothing but a daily routine for Joseph. God knows to raise His Son will require a tremendous amount of sacrifice, and Joseph, the carpenter, is up to the challenge.

To accept and to raise a child who is not his own, is certainly a tough call, but Joseph obeyed the will of God that has been expressed in his dream, “Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.” Yet, more than that, Joseph made sure that this mission would be brought to completion. From the image of “Let Mom Rest”, it seems that Mary just gave birth to Jesus and giving birth is certainly a draining and tough process. Mary was exhausted. Joseph takes over the responsibility to care for the baby Jesus, while Mary received her most-needed rest. This is just one small concrete example of who Joseph exercised the God-given mission to raise the Child of God. Certainly, his duty is not only manifested in that event. He protected Mary and her Child from dangers, especially from the threat from Herod the Great who would kill Jesus. For the rest of his life, Joseph would work hard to provide, educate and raise Jesus as a man who is ready to give His life for all.

Like Mary, Joseph did not understand also why he had to be a father who someone else’s child, why he had to put his life and future on the line for a son who is not his own? Yet, like Mary, Joseph had faith and accepted the will of God in his life. Not only simply accepting God’s will, but he also made sure that he gave his best and made God’s plan come to fulfillment.

We often do not understand why God’s plan for us. We do know where God will bring us. Yet, like Mary and Joseph, we are called to be the men and women of faith, to receive God’s plan as our own and bring His will into fruitful completion.

 Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP