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Second Sunday of Advent [A]

December 7, 2025

Matthew 3:1-12

John the Baptist’s denunciation of the Pharisees and Sadducees as a “brood of vipers” stands as one of the most startling and confrontational moments in the Gospels. To modern ears, it sounds like a severe insult. Why would John use such harsh language?

To understand his words, we must first look at John himself. He was widely recognized as a prophet of God, a man of unwavering integrity whose life embodied his message. Calling for repentance and a return to God, he himself lived in radical austerity—clothed in camel’s hair, sustained by locusts and wild honey—embodying the penitence he preached. This consistency between word and deed established his credibility, drawing multitudes to the Jordan to be baptized as a sign of their repentance.

Among those who came were Pharisees and Sadducees. While these two groups held significant theological differences—such as the Pharisees’ belief in resurrection and a broader canon of Scripture, unlike the Sadducees—they shared a common belief: both claimed a superior piety based on their expert knowledge of the Law. This knowledge became a platform for privilege, placing them in positions of honor and authority (see Luke 14:7-11).

The core issue, however, was hypocrisy. Many among them sought honor without practicing the integrity that earns true respect. They prayed, fasted, and gave alms conspicuously, performing religiosity as a public spectacle rather than an inward transformation. A faith devoid of integrity is, in essence, hypocrisy.

John identified them as a “brood of vipers” because, like the ancient serpent that deceived Eve, their deception led people away from God. They came to the Jordan not in genuine repentance, but to co-opt John’s popularity and perpetuate a façade of piety. Seeing through their intentions, John rebuked them sharply: “Bear fruit worthy of repentance” (Mat 3:8).

The danger of hypocrisy did not end with the religious leaders of the first century. It remains a temptation for anyone deeply invested in religious life—ourselves included. Attending church, participating in ministries, and performing devotional acts can, without integrity and repentance, become a deceptive routine. Hypocrisy harms not only the hypocrite but also the community. It can disillusion the faithful, wound the sincere, and provide those hostiles to faith with ammunition to ridicule believers. It is not rare that because of them, some people leave the Church all together.

Advent serves as a prophetic wake-up call, echoing John the Baptist’s cry across the centuries. Our religious practices—whether the Eucharist, confession, devotions, or service—must be intimately linked to authentic repentance and a sincere pursuit of holiness.

Rome

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Questions for Reflection:

  • What motivates my religious activities—a desire to be seen and praised, or a genuine love for God?
  • Do my daily choices reflect the faith I proclaim? Do I persist in habits contrary to the Gospel while maintaining external observance?
  • Do I judge others while failing to live up to the standards I demand of myself?

The King on the Cross

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The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe
November 23, 2025
Luke 23:35-43

As the liturgical year draws to a close, the Church proclaims a startling truth: Jesus Christ is King of the Universe. But what can this mean?

Jesus’ life defies every worldly notion of kingship. He is not a king who commands powerful armies or controls vast resources. He possesses neither soldiers nor gold. In fact, He died the most humiliating death, nailed to a cross under the mocking accusation, “This is the King of the Jews.” Most of His disciples had fled, leaving only a few faithful women to witness His tragic end. So, we must ask: what kind of king is this?

The answer is revealed precisely at the cross. Here, in the midst of injustice and mockery, Jesus redefines kingship. Even the two criminals crucified beside Him initially joined in the taunts (Mk 15:32). But then, something extraordinary happens. One of them has a change of heart and turns to Jesus, saying, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom (Luk 23:42).” In this moment of utter despair, the “good thief” recognizes Jesus as a real king at His throne.

What caused this dramatic shift? The key lies in the thief’s own words to his companion: “Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? We have been condemned justly, for we are getting what we deserve for our deeds, but this man has done nothing wrong (23:40-41).” He knew Jesus was innocent.

Yet, more than just His innocence, the good thief saw something more. He witnessed a profound and unsettling grace. Amid the injustice, he heard no curse or bitter word from Jesus. Instead, he heard, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing (23:34).” While the world hurled its anger, hatred, and violence at Him, Jesus did not amplify it with revenge. He embraced it, allowing it to stop with Him, and answered with a word of forgiveness.

The good thief realized that true power is not the ability to inflict suffering, to enrich oneself, to gain more power over oneself, but rather the strength to bear suffering and transform it into occasion of love. Jesus, stripped of all earthly power, wielded the greatest weapon of all: self-sacrificing love. He demonstrated that not even the cross could stop Him from loving—even loving those who sought His destruction.

And in that moment of recognition and humble request—“remember me”—the King exercises His true authority. Jesus doesn’t only promise a future reward; He proclaims a present reality: “Today you will be with me in Paradise.” Jesus, the King, transforms the darkest moment of a condemned criminal into the paradise.

This is the power of Christ our King. He invites us, like the good thief, to recognize His authority and embrace the law of love. When we do, He begins the same work of transformation in us, turning our own moments of pain, confusion, and sin into foretastes of His Kingdom.

Surabaya

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Questions for Reflection:

  • The citizens of God’s Kingdom are peacemakers who seek justice without vengeance. When others hurt us, what is our response? Do we avoid them, wish them harm, or seek to inflict the same pain? Or do we, like our King, pray for their conversion?
  • The citizens of the Kingdom are the pure in heart. What fills our inner world? Is it hatred, bitterness, and anger? Or is it forgiveness, compassion, and the things of God?

Work as Gift

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33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

November 16, 2025

2 Thessalonians 3:7-12

Work is an essential part of being human. We can define it as an effortful activity aimed at accomplishing a task, whether that be gathering food, building a home, or caring for another person. Yet, work is not a uniquely human endeavor. In the animal kingdom, we see remarkable industry: worker bees build, clean and protect their hives, forage for nectar, and regulate the hive’s temperature, while beavers construct complex dams that provide safe shelter and store food during winter.

While we share this impulse for labor with the animal world, there is an essential difference. Most animals work by instinct to ensure their survival and the propagation of their species. Our purpose in work, however, transcends mere survival. We work not only to preserve our lives but to improve them and build a better world for ourselves and our children. This is possible because of the unique gift of intellect, which allows us to comprehend the mysteries of nature, build tools, and develop technologies to use nature for the common good.

This intellect is a fundamental gift from God, bestowed upon us as beings made in His image. Through it, we are empowered to participate in God’s own work of creation. In Genesis 1:28, God instructed our first parents to “subdue” the earth. This “subduing” is not a license for destruction but a call to stewardship. This is clarified in Genesis 2:15, where God placed Adam in the garden “to serve and to guard it.” It is the duty of men and women to use our God-given intellect to cultivate the world according to His will—for the benefit of all, including future generations, and as protection against human greed and exploitation.

When we work honestly and diligently, we truly become God’s co-workers in building a better world. By participating in His holy work, our own labor becomes a means of our sanctification. This is why St. Paul so sharply rebukes the Thessalonians who abandoned work and relied on others for their sustenance (2 Thes 3:10). Laziness has no place in God’s plan; in fact, it is counted among the seven deadly sins.

However, a misunderstanding of work’s purpose also poses a spiritual danger. When our work occupies the majority of our time and energy, we can begin to derive our entire identity from our profession. We risk believing that “we are what we do,” living in fear of losing our job, our competitive edge, or our ability to achieve and be successful. At times, we may even bury ourselves in work, hiding behind the title of a “successful professional” to escape other responsibilities or even to hide from our failures as a present spouse or a loving parent.

This is the profound wisdom of God’s rest on the seventh day (Gen 2:1-3). He did not rest because He was weary, but to model for us the freedom we must claim: we must not become slaves to our work. Our identity is far greater than our profession. While work gives our lives meaning, it is not our only meaning, and certainly not our ultimate one. On the day of rest, we are invited to lay aside our status, our achievements, and our successes, and to remember our primary identity as beloved sons and daughters of God.

Rome

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Questions for Reflection:

  • How do I view my work and profession? Is it a vocation, a mere job, or something else?
  • When I fear losing my job, what is the true source of that fear? Is it the loss of financial stability, or a deeper fear of losing my sense of purpose and identity?
  • Do I truly observe a day of rest, setting aside my work to recharge and reconnect with God and my loved ones, or do I allow work to encroach upon this sacred time?

Basilica St. John Lateran

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Feast of the Dedication of the Lateran Basilica in Rome [C]

November 9, 2025

John 2:13-22

Today, the Church celebrates the Dedication of the Basilica of St. John Lateran in Rome. While many of us may be unfamiliar with this basilica, and others may wonder why its dedication is celebrated with such solemnity. To understand why, we must journey back to the earliest days of the Catholic Church.

The first Christian community in Rome was likely established around 33-34 AD. The Acts of the Apostles tells us that Jewish pilgrims from Rome were present at Pentecost, heard Peter’s preaching, were baptized, and carried the faith back to the imperial capital (Acts 2:1-42). This was the seed of the Church in Rome. When St. Peter himself arrived, he was recognized as the leader—the first Bishop of Rome.

For centuries, this fledgling Church endured severe persecution. The first state-sanctioned persecution began under Emperor Nero in 65 AD, who scapegoated Christians for a great fire in Rome. Nero’a persecution claimed the lives of the great Apostles Peter and Paul. The most systematic and brutal persecution, however, came later under Emperor Diocletian (303-311 AD), who ordered the destruction of scriptures, sacred places, and the execution of Christians across the empire.

This era of darkness gave way to light. After Diocletian, the empire fell into civil wars. Several generals, including Constatine, fought for the throne. On the eve of the decisive Battle of the Milvian Bridge, near Rome, in 312 AD, Constantine reportedly saw a vision of a cross in the sky with the words, “En Toutō Nika”—”In this sign, conquer.” Following a dream of Christ, he had his soldiers mark their shields with the Chi-Rho (☧). After his victory, Constantine not only ended the persecution of Christians but became a powerful patron of the Church.

In thanksgiving, he donated the former property of the Lateran family to the Church. On this land, he built a great basilica dedicated to Christ the Savior—the first public papal basilica (later, it would be dedicated also to St. John the Baptist and St. John the Evangelist). Pope St. Silvester accepted this gift and established it as his cathedral, the official seat of the Bishop of Rome. This was a monumental shift: the Church emerged from the hidden catacombs into the public square, a powerful sign of God’s providence and victory.

This is why the Basilica of St. John Lateran holds the title “Omnium Urbis et Orbis Ecclesiarum Mater et Caput”—”The Mother and Head of All Churches in the City and the World.” Though the popes moved their residence to the Vatican in the 14th century after a fire, the Lateran remains the Pope’s cathedral. Therefore, in celebrating its dedication, we celebrate the very foundation of the Church of Rome, the See of Peter, and the triumph of Christ’s Church over evil.

Rome

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide questions:

Are we truly aware of the rich and long history of our Church? Do we recognize that we belong to a greater, universal Catholic family spread across the world? How deeply do we live our faith each day? Have we ever experienced persecution, or are we blessed with the freedom to express our faith openly? What are we doing—personally and as a community—to help our Church grow in faith, love, and witness?

St. Joseph and the Happy Death

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The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls)

November 2, 2025

John 6:37-40

St. Joseph, the foster father of Jesus, is celebrated as a holy model for husbands, fathers, and workers. Yet, he also holds a more poignant title: the patron saint of a happy death. But what does this mean? How can death, so often shrouded in fear and sorrow, ever be considered happy?

To understand this, we must first ask a more fundamental question: What constitutes a happy death? Does it mean being surrounded by family at a ripe old age, free from pain? Or a beautiful funeral in a well-kept cemetery? At first glance, happiness and death seem to be irreconcilable opposites. We are hardwired for life; we instinctively recoil from the suffering that reminds us of our mortality. So, how can we find happiness in the very event our entire being resists? To seek a happy death can feel like trying to capture the wind.

It is here that St. Joseph comes to our aid. His life provides the answer to this profound puzzle. Catholic tradition holds that at his dying moment, Joseph was not alone. He was cradled in the presence of Jesus and Mary. This sacred companionship at life’s end was simply the culmination of a life lived in constant communion with God. The key to a happy death is a life lived with God.

In the Catholic faith, death is the final and decisive act of life, eternally sealing our choice for or against God. St. Joseph embodies the ideal: on his deathbed, he turned to Jesus, his adopted son and the Lord of Mercy, and to Mary, his wife and the Mother of God. His was a happy death because the Jesus he embraced with his final breath was the same Jesus who welcomed him into the eternal joy of heaven.

Yet, St. Joseph’s lesson is not merely about how to die, but fundamentally, about how to live. The Gospel describes him as a “righteous man” (Matt 1:19). His entire life was a faithful “yes”—a dedication to God’s will, often at great personal cost. He faced uncertainty, exile, and hardship for the sake of his family. Because he spent his life seeking the Lord in every circumstance, it was the most natural thing in the world for him to seek Jesus at his final moment. His good death was the fruit of a faithful life.

As we pray for our dearly departed, St. Joseph offers us a profound hope. He reminds us that for those who live faithfully with Christ, death does not destroy life but perfects it. It is not an end, but a gateway to unquenchable joy. This is the happy death.

St. Joseph, patron saint of a happy death, pray for us!

Guide Questions for Reflection:

Are we cultivating a life with Christ that prepares us to face our death with peace? Do we see death as a terrifying end, or as a passage to eternal life? In our daily choices, are we building the habit of turning to Jesus, as Joseph did? Do we seek the intercession of St. Joseph, asking him to pray for a holy death for ourselves and for all those who need it most?

Time and Prayer

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29th Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

October 19, 2025

Luke 18:1-8

In the parable of the persistent widow and the unjust judge, Jesus gives us a clear command: “pray always without becoming weary.” He invites us to persevere, especially when God asks us to wait for an answer. But why does a loving Father, who knows our needs, allow this waiting?

This period of waiting is not a sign of God’s absence, but His profound love. Here are three reasons God may allow us to wait.

1. Time Heals and Purifies Our Prayers

Often, our initial prayers are born from intense emotion—grief, distress, or even anger. In our urgency, we can confuse our genuine needs with our selfish wants. We do not always know what is truly good for us.

God uses the gift of time to help us settle our hearts and purify our intentions. He reforms our prayers, transforming them from demands into dialogues, from pleas for personal gain into words of trusting surrender, from “Be it done according to my will.” to “Be it done to me according to Your will.”

2. Time Builds Essential Virtues

We live in a world of instant results, and we can carry this impatience into our relationship with God. When we don’t get what we want immediately, we can become restless and frustrated.

Waiting teaches us the true meaning of patience—which is not just the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting. As St. Francis de Sales reminds us, “Every one of us needs half an hour of prayer each day, except when we are busy… then we need an hour.” The more we patiently pray, the more recognize that many things are beyond our control. The more we patiently ask, the more we realize how powerless we are. Yet, though we are powerless, we are not helpless or hopeless since we are now relying ourselves on someone beyond us, God the creator of heavens and earth.

3. Time Deepens Our Intimacy with God

It is easy to treat God like a heavenly vending machine, focused solely on the gifts we seek. Waiting refocuses our attention from the gifts to the Giver.

The more time we spend in prayerful waiting, the more we seek to know God for who He is—not just as a wish-fulfiller, but as a loving Father. We begin to focus less on our list of needs and more on our relationship with Him. This is the heart of prayer, which St. Teresa of Ávila defined as “nothing else than being on terms of friendship with God.”

A Story of Purified Prayer:
A senior nun once shared how, as a young novice, she wanted to leave the convent to get a job and support her mother financially. Her prayers were consumed with this plan. Her spiritual director gently asked her: “Would leaving truly be the best help? Is God limited to only one way of providing?”

She began to change her prayers. She stopped telling God what to do and started entrusting her mother entirely to His care. In time, relatives and friends came forward to support her mother, and she found the peace to persevere in her vocation. This simple story shows how God uses time to purify our prayers and draw us closer to Himself.

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide Questions for Personal Reflection:

  • Do I pray? Is there a consistent, daily space for God in my life?
  • How do I pray? Is my prayer a list of requests, or is it a conversation that includes listening?
  • How long do I pray? Do I give up when an answer isn’t immediate?
  • What do I ask from God? Are my prayers focused on my will, or on seeking to understand His?
  • How do I react when I don’t get what I prayed for? Does it lead to doubt, or to a deeper trust in His wisdom?
  • Do I ask for grace? Do I pray not just for specific outcomes, but for the strength, peace, and trust to endure the wait?

True Faith

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27th Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

October 5, 2025

Luke 17:5-10

Faith is a powerful act. Our Lord teaches that with faith even as small as a mustard seed, we could command a mulberry tree to be uprooted and planted in the sea. Yet, He also reminds us that faith alone is not enough. It must be accompanied by another essential virtue. What is that?

In simple terms, faith is an act of trust in God and in His Son, Jesus Christ. Throughout history, believers have experienced its tremendous, miraculous power. Through faith in Jesus, many find healing—both physical and psychological—even from incurable diseases. Through faith, countless people have life-transforming experiences, discovering profound meaning and joy. Through faith, many receive spiritual gifts, including extraordinary ones like healing and prophecy.

Despite this earth-shaking power, our Lord reminds us that we are ultimately God’s “servants.” Faith does not make us masters; it opens our eyes to the truth of our identity. If we believe in an almighty Creator, then we are His creatures. An unbridgeable gap exists between us: God is everything, and we are nothing. And yet, He loves us so immensely that He gave His only Son to save us and bring us into communion with Himself. This realization, driven by faith, leads us directly to humility.

The word “humility” comes from the Latin humus, meaning “soil” or “ground.” It is the realization that we are nothing and undeserving—we are, in a sense, “dirt.” Yet, God loves us unconditionally. Humility places faith in its proper context, reminding us that even our faith is a gift from God.

In fact, faith without humility is dangerous. Satan and the evil spirits have a kind of “faith”—they know with certainty that God exists and that they owe their power to Him. But without humility, they refuse to obey and serve. Ultimately, they fall.

Without humility, we risk self-deception. We might think our “great faith” makes us superior to others. While the gifts of faith are real, they can trap us into pride. Without humility, we may also treat faith as a bargaining chip, believing that if we have enough, we can control God to get what we want.

With humility, however, faith truly saves. We receive baptism from the Church and this act of humility means recognizing salvation as a gratuitous, unmerited God’s gift. We receive Holy Communion from the priest’s hand, and this act of humility means acknowledging that we need God to feed our hungry, weak souls. We Confess to God’s representative, and this act of humility means accepting that however broken we are, God still loves us and wants to heal us. Humility allows our faith to move us to love God deeply, as we fully recognize the abundance of His love for us.

Rome
Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide Questions

  1. How do we understand faith? Is it a belief in the truth about God? An emotional attachment? Or a commitment to live according to His will?
  2. How do we understand humility? Is it simply a lack of self-confidence? Or is it the profound realization of God’s immense love for us, even in our smallness?

The Nameless Rich Man

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26th Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

September 28, 2025

Luke 16:19-31

The story of Lazarus and the Rich man does not only have a lot of lessons we can learn and imitate, but it also reveals the truth about our salvation. What are those?

1. The Plot Twist

The story of Lazarus and the rich man demonstrate Jesus’ wisdom as both a storyteller and a teacher. Most would assume the rich man is the protagonist, as his material wealth was seen as a sign of God’s favour. Conversely, Lazarus, in his poverty and sickness, would be viewed as a loser, suffering from divine disfavour. Yet, Jesus delivers a shocking twist that challenged his original Jewish audience and continues to challenge us today. In the end, the rich man, despite his extreme wealth, cannot save himself, while Lazarus, the poor man, receives God’s mercy and rests in the bosom of Abraham.

2. Not Just About Wealth

However, a deeper look reveals that Jesus is not simply condemning the rich and glorifying the poor. The rich man loses his salvation not merely because of his wealth, which can be a blessing from God when used as a means to an end. The core of his failure is his selfishness. He is depicted wearing expensive purple garments and feasting sumptuously every night, yet he chooses to ignore the desperately poor man at his gate. Despite having more than enough capacity to help, he closes his eyes, focusing only on his own pleasure.

Similarly, poverty alone does not automatically grant Lazarus a place with Abraham. The poor are also susceptible to sin, such as stealing or manipulation. Yet, Lazarus is described as one who “gladly” received the scraps from the rich man’s table. He refused to use his poverty as an excuse for sin, instead choosing gratitude for the little he had.

3. The Nameless Rich Man

Among the story’s three major characters, only one is left nameless: the rich man. Abraham, whose name means “father of many nations,” receives Lazarus, whose name is a Latinized form of the Hebrew “Eliazer,” meaning “My God is my helper.” This small detail is significant, illustrating a profound truth: we become what we love.

The rich man loved his wealth so dearly that he lost his unique identity, becoming known simply by his material status. He defined himself by his luxurious garments and lavish lifestyle. In contrast, Lazarus and Abraham loved God. The more they loved Him, the more they reflected His image, allowing their authentic, God-given identities to shine. Lazarus lived as one dependent on God’s help, and Abraham as a father to many nations. The more we love earthly things, we are absorbed into them, and gradually losing ourselves, yet the more we love God, the more we become like God, and we become more authentic.

Lourdes, France

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide questions:

Do we love God more than anything? What are things that prevent us from loving God? What are God-given missions in this life? Do we care for our unfortunate brothers and sisters around us?

The Cross that Heals

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Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross

September 14, 2025

John 3:13-17

The cross is a universal symbol of Christianity. People wear it as jewelry, like necklaces, rings, and earrings, either as a sign of devotion or simply as fashion. Churches and other Christian buildings are often crowned with its shape. Yet, despite its familiarity, the profound history and meaning of the cross can often be overlooked.

Historically, the cross was not a sacred symbol but a tool of terror. Crucifixion was a Roman method of execution designed for criminals and rebels. The condemned person was stripped naked, nailed to a wooden beam, and left to die a slow, public death exposed to the elements and humiliation. It was the ultimate symbol of human cruelty. This is the torture Jesus endured.

Yet, Jesus did not escape His cross. He embraced it. Through His resurrection, He transformed the cross from an instrument of torture into an instrument of God’s mercy and healing. In the Gospel, Jesus Himself draws a typological connection between His cross and the bronze serpent raised by Moses. Just as those who looked at the bronze serpent were healed, all who look to Jesus’ cross with faith will be saved.

This leads to the essential question: how does the cross heal us?

First, it heals through love. When we look at the cross, we see the ultimate proof of God’s love: He sent His only Son to offer Himself as a sacrifice to reconcile us to Himself. As St. Paul writes, “But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us” (Rom 5:8). We receive this healing from sin primarily through Baptism and the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Every sin wounds our soul and separates us from God; the cross stands as a permanent call to repent and return to Him.

Second, it heals through God’s presence. The cross shows us that God is not a distant deity, remote from our pain. He chose to become one of us, to share in our human experience with all its suffering. On the cross, Jesus embraced the worst of human agony, demonstrating that when we unite our sufferings with His, our own crosses can be transformed. They can become a divine means of healing and grace.

When suffering hits us, it is easy to complain and despair. But the cross reminds us we are not alone. Just as Jesus used His suffering to become a blessing for the world, we too can offer our own pains to God and become a source of strength and compassion for others.

St. Francis of Assisi once sought glory as a knight. After being captured in battle and becoming seriously ill, he recovered physically but still felt a spiritual emptiness. Everything changed while he was praying in a broken-down chapel. He had a vision of Jesus on the cross, who said to him, “Francis, go and repair my house, which is falling into ruin.” This moment gave Francis the true healing he needed, helping him discover who he was and what he was meant to do, to be God’s instrument of peace and healings.

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Guide questions:

What are our crosses in our lives? How do Jesus’ cross heal us? How? Do we become the means of God’s healing for others also? How?

To Hate and To Love

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23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time [C]

September 7, 2025

Luke 14:25-33

We now encounter one of Jesus’ most challenging statements: He demands that we “hate” our parents, siblings, and even our own children. How are we to understand this hard saying?

To find the answer, we must consider three key elements: Jesus’ full statement, the meaning of the word “hate,” and the broader context of Jesus’ life and mission.

  1. The Full Statement
    First, we need to read the entire sentence. Jesus said, “If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” This is not a general command for everyone, but a specific condition addressed to those who wish to become His true followers.
  • The Biblical Meaning of “Hate”
    The word “hate” here (from the Greek μισέω – miseo) does not imply a feeling of strong aversion or enmity. In the Bible, this word often carries a comparative meaning: “to love less” or “to disfavor” in order to show preferential treatment to something else (see Genesis 29:31, Deuteronomy 21:15-16, Luke 16:13). In this context, Jesus is demanding that His followers make Him their absolute top priority. He is not asking us to detest our families, but to love Him so much that all other loves—even for our own lives—seem like hatred by comparison. A simpler way to phrase it is: Unless we love Jesus more than everything and everyone else, we cannot be His disciples.
  • The Broader Context
    Finally, we must remember that Jesus was speaking as He walked toward Jerusalem, where He would face His Passion and death on the cross. To follow Him meant to share in His suffering. This is only possible if a disciple prioritizes Jesus above all else. We see this exemplified in figures like Mary, His mother, who refused to hide but stood firmly at the foot of the cross, sharing in His agony. Other disciples, like John and Mary Magdalene, also followed Him to the very end, demonstrating this ultimate priority.


This teaching remains true for us today. To follow Jesus to the end requires loving Him above all. While not everyone is called to physical martyrdom like St. Ignatius of Antioch who was fed to the lions or St. Francis de Capillas was tortured and killed when he preached Jesus in China, every disciple is called to make Jesus the central priority of their life.

This doesn’t mean we must pray every second of the day. Instead, it means making daily decisions that reflect our love for Jesus and our desire to please God. This can be as simple as: Choosing to avoid sin and vice; Refusing to be a stumbling block for others; Prioritizing Sunday Mass, even while on vacation; Gently inviting family members to know Jesus more.

Loving Jesus is a conscious, daily decision to choose what strengthens our holiness and deepens our relationship with Him.

Surabaya

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection Questions:

How do I concretely show my love for Jesus in my daily routine? Do my actions and words encourage others to love Jesus? Could my behavior be making it difficult for someone else to approach Jesus?