The Ascension Sunday. May 8, 2016 [Luke 24:46-53]
“As he blessed them he parted from them and was taken up to heaven (Luk 24:32).”
The best way to say goodbye is to bless. Every time I would leave for the Philippines and continue my formation, my parents would hug and bless me as they mark my forehead with a small sign of the cross. My Filipino friends have this ‘Mano Po’ tradition at the beginning and the end of an encounter with their elderly or people they respect. They will hold the hand of their elders, and place it on their forehead. This is, I believe, a beautiful sign of honor and blessing. The Dominicans in Europe used to have this habit of asking blessing to their prior before they leave for mission. Indeed, it is the motto of Dominican to ‘praise, bless and preach’. Ultimately, every Eucharist celebration ends with the final blessing.
Yet, what is blessing all about? In Latin, blessing is ‘benedicere’. The word is a composition of two other Latin words: ‘bene (good)’ and ‘dicere (to speak)’. Thus, to bless is to speak good word. Since the word tends to become flesh, we wish that the good word we utter for our beloved turn to be a reality as well. If we look closely the story of creation in Genesis 1, we discover God did threefold acts: creating, seeing goodness and blessing the creations. When God created the universe, God made sure that His creations were good and because of this goodness, He blessed them. Blessing is not simply human act, but also divine. It is not simply saying good, but also discovering good. It is not only wishing good and nice words, but hoping good things to happen.
As the Father has blessed the creations before He rested in the seventh day, the Son also blessed His beloved disciples before He ascended into His resting abode. When God blessed Adam and Eve, He said, “Be fertile and multiply! (Gen 1:28)” God’s blessing names, affirms and rejuvenates the goodness in us. Because of our goodness is reaffirmed, it empowers man and woman to be fruitful, joyful and generous. God’s blessing transforms us into blessing also for others.
To bless is our vocation as the disciples of Christ. Catherine Marie Hilkert, OP once said that preaching is naming grace, then it is also true that preaching is naming goodness. Unfortunately, instead blessing, we choose to curse. In Latin, cures is ‘maledicere’, to speak bad. Just like blessing, bad words tend to become flesh. Families are broken because we forget to say blessing, and focus on blaming. Religious intolerance, violence and even terrorism begin at the holy pulpit. Sadly, in time of election, from far West, the United States to the far East, Indonesia and the Philippines, politicians running for the offices engage in mudslinging, trade accusations, and employ nasty tricks. Defying reason, the people turn to be fanatic, frantic and partial supporters, willing to do anything for the candidate they admire.
Our world has been fractured and disfigured due to the curses we utter. Adam and Eve said no to God and passed the blame to each other. As their offspring, we continue this destructive curse. We desperately need blessing to undo this vicious cycle. Then, Jesus came and embraced all the bad things in His cross and made them fruitful again in His resurrection. Now, He ascends into Heaven and before He goes, He makes sure that His blessing remains. Ascension reminds us that we have the mission to name goodness and allow ourselves to become blessings to others. Only by becoming a blessing, we may heal ourselves, our family, our society and our world.
Bro. Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP
One day, I had an opportunity to converse with one of our security personnel at our convent of Santo Domingo. I asked him if he sees God, what question would he ask of God? His answer went beyond my expectation. In Filipino, he would say, ‘Panginoon, Mahal mo ba ako?’ [Lord, do you love?] Surprised by his question, I inquired further, ‘Why that question?’ He replied in Filipino, ‘Brother, I am poor person with a lot of problems. Sometimes, I don’t really feel His presence and love.’ I realized that his question is not only single isolated case, but question of many people.
Suatu hari, saya memiliki kesempatan untuk berbicara dengan salah satu personel keamanan di biara kami Santo Domingo. Saya bertanya jika dia melihat Tuhan saat ini, pertanyaan apa yang akan ia berikan kepada Allah? Pertanyaan di luar dugaan saya. Dalam bahasa Tagalog, ia akan mengatakan, ‘Panginoon, Mahal mo ba ako?’ [Tuhan, apakah Engkau mengasihi aku?] Terkejut dengan pertanyaannya, saya bertanya lebih lanjut, ‘Mengapa pertanyaan itu?’ Dia menjawab, ‘Frater, saya orang miskin dan hidup dengan banyak permasalahan. Kadang-kadang, saya tidak merasakan kehadiran dan cinta-Nya.’ Saya menyadari bahwa pertanyaannya adalah valid dan juga pertanyaan dari banyak orang.
The first time God gave His commandment was on the Mount Sinai. To Moses and the Israelites, He made His covenant that He will be their God and they will be His People. And to live as a Holy People, God gave them the Law, famously called the Ten Commandment (Exo 19-20). Then, centuries after Moses, at the Upper Room, in old city Jerusalem, God gave His new commandment. This time, His Law is simpler and yet, more radical than the old one. Jesus handed to them the greatest command: Love one another as He has loved them.
Allah memberikan Hukum-Nya yang pertama di Gunung Sinai. Dengan Musa dan bangsa Israel, Dia membuat perjanjian bahwa Dia akan menjadi Allah mereka dan mereka akan menjadi umat-Nya. Dan agar bisa hidup sebagai Jemaat yang kudus, Allah memberi mereka hukum dan perintah. Hukum ini terkenal sebagai Sepuluh Perintah Allah (Kel 19-20). Kemudian, beberapa abad setelah Musa, di kota tua Yerusalem, Allah memberikan perintah baru-Nya. Kali ini, Hukum-Nya lebih sederhana namun jauh lebih radikal. Yesus memberikan kepada para murid-Nya perintah teragung: saling mengasihi, seperti Dia telah mengasihi mereka.
One of the loveliest images of Jesus is the Good Shepherd. It is even more beautiful when we try to bring ourselves to Palestine in the time of Jesus. Life as a shepherd is tough and tiresome. Grass was scarce and the sheep constantly wondered. Since there was not protective fence, the shepherd was bound to watch his sheep for all time, otherwise the sheep would go astray. The terrain in Judea was rough and rocky, and these forced the shepherd to exert extra energy. Not only constant, shepherd’s duty was also dangerous. Wild animals, especially wolfs, were ready to attack and devour the meek sheep. Not only wild predators, robbers and thieves were eager to pirate the sheep.
Salah satu citra terindah Yesus adalah Gembala yang Baik. Citra ini bahkan lebih indah ketika kita mencoba untuk melihat situasi Palestina pada zaman Yesus. Hidup sebagai seorang gembala adalah sulit dan melelahkan. Rumput terbatas dan domba akan terus berkelana. Karena tidak ada pagar pembantas, gembala akan memantau domba-dombanya sepanjang waktu, jika tidak, domba akan hilang. Medan di Yudea kasar dan berbatu, dan ini memaksa gembala mengerahkan energi ekstra. Selain itu, tugas gembala juga berbahaya. Hewan liar, terutama serigala, siap untuk menyerang dan melahap domba. Tidak hanya predator liar, perampok dan pencuri juga ingin membajak domba-dombanya.
Reading today’s Gospel in original Greek, we get to appreciate more the dialogue between Jesus and Peter. In English translation, both Jesus and Peter expressed themselves in the same word ‘love’, but in Greek, the word Jesus employed is ‘agapao’ while Peter’s is ‘phileo’. ‘Agapao’ or ‘agape’ refers to unconditional and radical love that every Christian should exemplify. This love is based on freewill and discipline, not just affections. This love empowers to love, to forgive and to have mercy even to our enemies. While ‘phileo’ or ‘philia’ is the reciprocal love of friendship. It is coming from both natural liking as well as firm decision. We make friends with whom we feel close, yet we exert also efforts to get close and understand them. As an old adage say, ‘friend in indeed is friends indeed.’
Membaca Injil hari ini dalam bahasa Yunani, kita bisa lebih menghargai dialog antara Yesus dan Petrus. Dalam terjemahan bahasa Indonesia, baik Yesus maupun Petrus mengungkapkan diri dalam kata yang sama ‘mengasihi’, tapi dalam bahasa Yunani, kata yang Yesus gunakan adalah ‘agapao’ sementara Petrus adalah ‘phileo’. ‘Agapao’ atau ‘agape’ mengacu pada kasih tak bersyarat dan radikal. Kasih ini didasarkan pada kehendak bebas dan disiplin, bukan hanya afeksi dan emosi. ‘Agape’ memberdayakan kita untuk mengasihi, mengampuni dan berbelas kasih bahkan kepada musuh-musuh kita. Sementara ‘phileo’ atau ‘philia’ adalah kasih persahabatan yang resiprokal. Kasih ini datang dari naluri alamiah dan juga kehendak bebas. Kita bersahabat dengan siapa kita merasa dekat, namun kita juga mengerahkan upaya untuk mendekati dan memahami mereka. Sebagai pepatah tua mengatakan, ‘Friend in need is friend indeed.’
In Medio Ecclesiae 