Second Sunday in Ordinary Time [C}

January 19, 2025

John 2:1-12

In every wedding, we naturally expect the bridegroom and bride to take center stage. After all, it is their marriage—their happiest moment. However, the story of the wedding at Cana in Galilee offers us a different perspective, one that is often overlooked. What is it?

The wedding at Cana is not primarily about the bride and groom. Surprisingly, their names are never mentioned, and they barely feature in the story. The only time the bridegroom is mentioned is when he is praised for providing an abundant supply of high-quality wine. Instead, this Gospel account focuses on Jesus and His interaction with Mary, His mother. It reveals a deeper truth about Christian marriages that transcends the visible celebration.

The story begins with an introduction: Jesus’ mother, Jesus Himself, and His disciples are invited to the wedding. This detail carries profound significance. Whom do we invite to our wedding? Too often, we focus only on ourselves—preparing the venue, planning ceremonies and programs, selecting food, and choosing the perfect wedding attire. We become preoccupied with pleasing relatives, friends, and guests. But do we make it a priority to invite Jesus and His mother to our wedding?

Many of us might respond, “Yes! We invite Jesus to our wedding because it takes place in the Church!” Yet, is Jesus truly present in our hearts? For some, the wedding is held in a church simply because we happen to be Catholic. Others choose a church wedding for its beauty or prestige. Many attend pre-marriage catechetical courses merely out of obligation, complying with diocesan requirements to secure a church wedding. But how many of us make a conscious and heartfelt effort to truly invite Jesus to our wedding? Do we spiritually prepare for the sacrament through retreats or confession? Do we ask for His grace and guidance as we embark on this sacred journey?

The story of the wedding at Cana also highlights Mary’s unique role. She notices the wine is running out and alerts Jesus to the problem. After a brief exchange, she instructs the servants: “Do whatever He tells you.” This leads to Jesus performing His first miracle. These events reveal Mary’s deep involvement in the wedding. She is not just an ordinary guest; she has access to the inner workings of the household and is aware of the practical needs, such as the shortage of wine. Instead of informing the bridegroom or his family, she turns to Jesus. Out of love for His mother, Jesus uses the simple resources available—water—and transforms them into the finest wine.

This truth is both profound and beautiful. If we want the “best wine” in our marriage, it is essential not only to invite Jesus and Mary to our wedding day but to welcome them into our “kitchen,” and to allow them to be involved in everyday moments of our lives. The Gospel reminds us that the best wine comes from ordinary water. In the same way, the greatest blessings in marriage often arise from simple, unseen acts of love for our spouse and children.

Rome

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Reflection Questions

Have we truly invited Jesus and Mary into our marriage, family, and daily lives? Do we recognize Jesus working miracles in our marriages? Have we entrusted our marriage and family to the care of Mary?