Anger

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time [A]

September 13, 2026

Sirach 27:30 – 28:7

We get angry, yet what is anger? Is getting angry inherently sinful? What do the Bible and the Church teach about this emotion?

Anger is part of the broader spectrum of human emotions, much like happiness, sadness, or fear. Like any other emotion, anger belongs to our biological system and helps us react to our surroundings. Consequently, it is morally neutral—neither sinful nor praiseworthy in itself. However, anger differs from other feelings because it triggers intense physical responses: muscles tense, the heart rate increases, breathing quickens, and adrenaline surges. These physiological reactions prepare us to act and to confront perceived evils. In ancient times, our ancestors relied on anger to fight for survival and safeguard resources, as the loss of life or basic necessities posed the greatest threat to their existence.

Today, modern humans experience anger for a wide variety of reasons, ranging from losing a Wi-Fi signal or sitting in traffic for hours, to grieving a loss or facing injustice. Because anger is subject to human reason, it becomes truly beneficial only when managed wisely. Conversely, when we allow anger to master our reason, it can harm not only us but also those around us, including the people we love. This is the point at which anger becomes sinful.

Anger becomes sinful in two primary ways. First, we might direct anger toward the wrong object—meaning we become upset over something that is not genuinely unjust. For instance, a student who never studies might grow angry with a teacher for assigning a low grade. Second, we might hold anger for the wrong motivation, such as a desire for vengeance. When hurt or upset, we can become driven by a vindictive urge to see others suffer as we have suffered. This impulse is dangerous because it leads to hurtful words or violent actions that harm both ourselves and others. True Christian anger must always be grounded in justice rather than revenge. As Sirach says, “vengeance belongs to the Lord.”

How, then, should Christians manage anger? First, when experiencing a surge of emotion, we can take a deep breath and count to ten, doing our best to calm down. Second, we ought to reflect on the root cause by asking, “What triggered my anger?” The issue might stem from our own actions, or, if caused by someone else, it may have been completely unintentional. Third, we should consider the right reasons and methods for expressing our feelings. Is it necessary to shout or curse? Must we post on social media to generate attention, or can we address the matter through direct, peaceful conversation? We do well to remember the advice of Saint Paul, “Do not let the sun go down on your anger” (Eph 4:26). Fourth, we must learn to forgive, especially when the other person seeks one. Forgiveness does not mean ignoring the offense or pretending it never happened; rather, it is an act of charity that restores peace and fosters unity.

Finally, what should we do if anger leads us into sin? First, we can seek the Sacrament of Reconciliation and ask for the Lord’s forgiveness. We must prevent harmful emotional outbursts from developing into habit, and acknowledging our anger as sinful is the first step toward overcoming it. Second, whenever possible, we should ask for forgiveness from those we have wronged. Seeking reconciliation is never a sign of weakness; it is a display of spiritual strength that builds lasting peace.

How often do we allow minor everyday frustrations to cloud our reason and hurt the people we love? When we feel wronged, are we seeking true justice and peace, or are we driven by a desire for vengeance? Do we actively practice forgiveness and address our anger daily, or do we let it linger and settle in our hearts?

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